Skip to content

And nobody told me?

Menu
  • About
  • Contact
Menu

Defacer

March 25, 2023January 19, 2023

Just a quick aside to the person who checked out Christopher Hitchens’ God Is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything before me from the Missoula Public Library: thanks. No, I mean it. It wasn’t enough for me to appreciate Hitchens’ wit and intellect. I wouldn’t have pumped my fist in the air and said “Yes!”…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

The Memes of Summer

March 21, 2023January 19, 2023

This seems to be our year. First Erin, and now Patia, have hit us with two of the various memes circulating around, as Senator Ted Stevens likes to call it, this series of tubes. Patia’s is “Why Do I Blog?” Good question. Every now and again I tried keeping a diary when I was little….

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Hands Joined Forever In Wax

February 28, 2023January 19, 2023

Here’s a mystery. Years ago I ducked into a Six Flags gift shop to wait for my kids to finish a ride and to avoid the park heat, despair and abundant metaphors for the sweet fakeout that is the American Dream. It was a specialty gift shop. The specialty was special candles, like massive sand…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Rotten

February 24, 2023January 19, 2023

In finishing up the house renovations, it turns out I’m facing a costly repair. Sometimes a broken tile isn’t just a broken tile. Tile floors may look like puzzles but it’s not like a matching tile is available to just slide into one missing slot. If a matching tile isn’t available, you have to decide…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Uncanny Valley

February 19, 2023January 19, 2023

Hello Weekend. Birds are out there, so loud. Let’s stare down the uncanny valley of the soul until the delta is gone. So much is close to almost being aspirationally authentic. The problem is the closer it looks to almost real, the worse it gets. Closer can’t be the goal. I submit to you Anne…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Past Perfect

February 9, 2023January 19, 2023

A few conceits can push forward the intimacy of a group of people. Elevator breakdowns, of course, just ask Hollywood. Discussions about huitlacoche, any other fungus and/or disgusting things to eat. And then there’s the ink conversation, the three-hour tour of party conversations. Guaranteed to make all manner of people hike up their skirts a…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Strike Anywhere

January 30, 2023January 19, 2023

Do you remember teaching yourself to strike a paper match? Learning the right amount of pressure, the pinch on the hard chemicals then the snap and the deft finger lift away from the air that would be sucked into flame. Maybe a quick curve of the hand to shield it from the wind? Each matchbook…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Visiting Rowan Oak

January 25, 2023January 19, 2023

I wanted something from Faulkner’s house. I wanted something like you do when a grandfather is buried, when you leave a lover for what you know is the last time even if she does not, when you walk through the woods or a graveyard at the beginning of winter. A shirt, a stone. Something. Circling…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Mississippi Delta Pilgrimage

January 19, 2023

You know I love a pilgrimage. When the seed casing feels too tight, it needs to be soaked in a hard rain and it needs to be scratched, given a cut against what won’t give way. One way to do this is a road trip built for touching gravestones, stomping on the grounds of the…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts

Purge and Forgive

December 24, 2022September 11, 2022

Every Sunday I try to fill up this sorry old Goodwill tote with stuff that needs to leave my house Monday morning. That’s the gig. I’ve been doing in for months now, and I’m really not sure where the stuff is still coming from. I’m digging deeper I guess. This week the evenings are cooler,…

Read more
Categories: Thoughts
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • …
  • 6
  • Next

Recent Posts

  • Defacer
  • The Memes of Summer
  • Hands Joined Forever In Wax
  • Rotten
  • Uncanny Valley

Recent Comments

  1. Kathy on Wherein I Explain What Offsides Means to You
  2. Ellie on Wherein I Explain What Offsides Means to You
  3. Gwen on My Beautiful Gulf of Mexico, the Devil & the Deep Blue Sea

Tools

DrFone
Code by imei

© 2023 And nobody told me? | Powered by Minimalist Blog WordPress Theme