Lucky

Somewhere in a bizzaro universe, there is a me, who was not a teenage mother, who doesn’t work a full time job, and who doesn’t worry every day that she might be screwing up another human being. Bizarro me wakes up when she feels like it and there isn’t an alarm clock to be seen. [...]

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breakfast

This was a pretty easy assignment. I mean, what mom hasn’t fantasized about the things she would do if she had a day to spend without kids? I’m not even that greedy; I’d be happy with a few hours. But for the purposes of this post, I was supposed to imagine an entire day. What [...]

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fadra-Evan

I know I’m messing up the theme. We’re all supposed to be talking about what we would do with a completely child-free day. Don’t worry. I’ll tell you what you want to hear. It won’t be much of a surprise. My day (if I could fit it all in) would go something like this: Sleep [...]

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quilt

I didn’t always want to be a mom. Once I was married, I knew that was what I wanted. We started trying once our careers were firmly established (and I hit a magic pre-baby weight). It was a tumultuous a year and a half of trying, hormone adjustments, and meds that landed me in the [...]

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…that I should NOT feel guilty for enjoying my time away.

by Lerner September 7, 2011
wedding

I feel uniquely qualified to talk about what I would do with a kid-free day since I just got back from a kid-free, responsibility-free weekend. I just so happened to have written a post with the play-by-play of my Friday & Saturday without kids over at my personal blog today. But I’ll give you the [...]

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…that I could have any life I wanted.

by AndNobodyToldMe.com September 7, 2011
carrie

She used the words “expert on the topic” which made me cringe…the overwhelming feeling of needing to live up to that expectation is definitely still lingering as I write this post. When Lerner contacted me and asked me if I would consider writing a guest post for AndNobodyToldMe (as it closes its metaphorical doors) as [...]

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…that I’d develop Stockholm syndrome.

by Jenny September 6, 2011
karmayoga

What would I do with a kid-free day? I’d start with breakfast. A little café somewhere, with café au lait and Belgian waffles and fresh whipped cream. And a newspaper. E loves waffles. This is really too big to eat by myself. She’d love dipping strawberries in the whipped cream. I wonder what she’s eating [...]

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…that a day off would turn into a fantasy

by Melisa September 6, 2011
ANTM8202011daydream

When I was part of the corporate world, I constantly fantasized about what it would be like to not have to work. I thought about going to lunch and not returning. I think it was because I was stuck in a job and not a career. Enter motherhood, which is both a career and a [...]

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…that I would find a way to make my child-free fantasy come true.

by Mahreen September 5, 2011
writing Botticelli_Sant'Agostino

For me, the hardest part about being a mother is trying to find time for myself. After five years of night-time waking, bum-wiping, and endless question-answering, it’s no wonder that something as simple as an uninterrupted shower becomes something of a fantasy.  As much as I adore my children, I guess I never thought about [...]

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…that this is the final week for And Nobody Told Me.

by Lerner September 5, 2011
good bye

As mothers, we’re all told we should take time for ourselves but we rarely do. Articles (probably written by childless columnists), doctors, friends, family all tell us that the key to having anything to give back to our families is to stock up our own reserve by investing in some time alone. But how do [...]

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